Why Why Why?What is it with single men in the swinging scene, do they have their manners removed before joining us?There are so many single guys looking for fun that they have to compete to get selected by the couples and females.
Yet when they get an invitation to join the fun so many (not all I hasten to add, so don't fill my mailbox with denials) of them let the couple or female down.
OK. We all get nervous sometimes, we all get held up in traffic, suffer mechanical breakdowns, or simply get lost.
But guys, almost everyone of you must have seen that marvelous invention that allows you to communicate over long distances - the telephone! Many of you have a mobile version in your pocket, just call the people you are supposed to be meeting and let them know you are running late, or have lost your nerve or lost your way. We will be less pissed off with you if you let us know why you will not be meeting, than if you simply don't show.
We see complaints about these let downs almost everyday in the chatrooms on our sites, and have had it happen to us on a couple of occasions as well.
We have guys ringing and writing to us asking for invitations to our parties. These places are much sought after, as we only allow 2-3 guys per party. When we agree that a guy can come, they let us down 50% of the time. Every month we have at least 1 guy fail to show and fail to tell us they are not coming, fail to apologise afterwards, then call again the next month asking for another invitation!
So please guys, remember your manners, ring the people you are going to let down. They may let you re-book. If you don't you are likely to get a bad reputation and no invitations from any couples.
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